Tips for Dating in Atlanta for the Ladies
Ladies when it comes to looking for love you can follow your heart and you can follow your head. As your Atlanta Matchmaking experts we'd like to share some tips to consider while dating in Atlanta in your search for Mr. Right?
Avoid these common dating mistakes and you are sure to find him!
- Waiting by the Phone
Keep yourself busy! Take classes, join groups, hang out with your friends, ENJOY LIFE! The more you do, the more he will want to be a part of it. Don't wait by the phone or drop your plans with others when a new man extends an invite. You can seem needy, desperate, and too available (yes, there is such a thing!).
Bad boys definitely have a sexy and mysterious appeal. However, true bad boys make for bad relationships. In the short term, they can be fun. But if you are looking for long-term potential, do not try to change their behavior. Even though it is tempting, you will have better self esteem and more self confidence when the right person does come along.
- Pity Parties
Being single is no excuse to feel sorry for yourself. It makes for terrible company, and he'll have no wonder why you're single. Date yourself - take dance classes, go to wine tastings, join a local outdoors association. You will have fun and also open the opportunity to meet someone who shares similar interests.
- Trashing your Ex
Well, trashing anyone. That's a given. No matter where you are in your budding romance, talking negatively about your past relationships can make your new man think you might be jaded with baggage or, worse, a pessimistic person all around. Your past only needs to come up when it is relevant to a committed future.
- Forgetting the Basics
Whether or not you were raised in a barn, one of the most important tips we can give is do not forget your manners! Say thank you. The man should be appreciated for his efforts whether you hit it off or not. It can make all the difference it the world on whether he wants to see you again.
- Believing in the One and Only
Set your standards too high and your setting yourself up for failure. You're not perfect - why would you expect anyone else to be? Flaws don't have to be deal breakers - those quirks can be quite charming and endearing. Instead of focusing on the little things that aren't quite right, concentrate on shared values, goals, personality traits and how he treats you and makes you feel. The minor whims can always be swayed with the powers of feminine persuasion. While we're sure that there are some who have done the opposite of what we suggest yet still found love. For every rule there is an exception, but if you prefer to play the odds in your favor then take them to heart.
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